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Transcript
Okay, beautiful soul.
So, today we’re going to dive into a topic that’s definitely going to press some buttons.
Definitely going to trigger some people, but that’s okay.
It’s just the way that the cookie crumbles, right?
And this video isn’t being designed or created, I’m not speaking into this topic to trigger people, but it’s just one of those topics that triggers people.
So, I invite you to sit down and buckle up and listen and observe.
And you can put your comments in the comments section and let me know your take on it.
When we held our first Savage Man retreat about a year or so ago, a year and a half ago, I remember the first email that I sent out to the tribe and we got a bunch of emails come back saying:
“Why are you encouraging men to be savage? Don’t you think we’ve got enough men on this planet that are full of ego and that are aggressive and angry and all this sort of stuff? Don’t you think men have done enough damage on this planet?”
Yeah, men have caused a lot of damage on this planet. So have women. We all have.
What we have to do is define what a savage man is, or a savage gentleman.
Because ultimately what this earth requires right now is a whole bunch of savage gentlemen.
Weak men are dangerous in the negative sense.
Savage men are dangerous in the good sense.
A savage man, a savage gentleman, is a man who is dangerous and ruthless and has the potential, at the drop of a hat, to cause serious harm to another human being, or anyone who stands in the way of him and his family, him and his community, him and his children.
But a savage man will only ever unleash that savagery if it’s necessary, because a savage gentleman has it all under control.
A weak man is never going to be able to stand up and defend his family, his community, his children, because he’s had the savage beaten out of him by society, by life, indoctrinated, had that masculinity weaved out of his soul, weaved out of his human architecture.
And that’s by design.
And, you know, as I share this information, and we’re going to go deep on this, I’m not calling out any men in a bad way.
I just want to lay down facts that will hopefully hit human beings in a way that helps them realize and understand at a deep level what kind of action they need to take if we truly want Earth and all of Earth’s children, all of our sisters and brothers, to live and thrive on this planet.
We have to take back our sovereignty.
We have to take our freedom back.
And a lot of people say, “Well, we are sovereign. We are free. Look at this beautiful planet.”
Well, can you just get on a plane and go to another country? Can you get on a boat and rock up at a harbour and just walk onto the land?
No.
You’ve got to hand over your passport. You’ve got to go through criminal checks. You’ve got to go through biometrics. You’ve got to be fingerprinted, eye scanned.
You’ve got to go through machines at the airport. You’ve got to be fried with different radio technologies, EMFs.
Your bag’s got to go through security.
And they’ll tell you all of this is in the name of safety and anti-terrorism and all of this stuff.
I’ve travelled this world extensively and I know that there are things that happen on this planet that are not good.
But when you travel this planet and you go to different places around the planet, it’s very rare that you go to a place where the human public don’t like you.
It’s very rare that you go to a country and the public, the humans, the sisters and brothers on the ground there, hate you.
I’ve been all over this planet. I’ve been to some crazy places.
I remember me and my mate came out of a nightclub in Africa years ago and I was drinking at the time and we were walking through the streets, and we heard music playing, men sort of laughing, joking.
So, we thought, let’s go and check it out.
And we went over there. There are these guys just dancing around an oil drum drinking beer, AKs slung over their shoulders.
You’ve got two gringos, two white men, drunk, don’t know where the hell they are, walk up to them and they just offer us a beer, and we have a laugh with them.
You know, I’ve been to some crazy places, man. And I’ve been all over the world.
And yeah, I’ve been in scrapes. I’ve been in some encounters.
But that’s not through integrating with the general population.
You know, there are pockets all over this planet where there is dark stuff going on. But they’re gangs, they’re criminal organisations, they’re governments, they’re different pockets of society.
The general public just want to show you their lands, give you a meal, talk to you, find out where you’re from, show you their culture.
But through the news and through the media, we’re led to believe that there’s people all over the planet that hate us and we shouldn’t go here and we shouldn’t go there.
There was this war, right, a few months ago. We had 85 people booked onto our Egypt tour.
We ended up taking about 45 because people bought into the fear. “Oh, Egypt’s dangerous.”
Egypt’s one of the safest places on the planet, especially when there’s a war going on. It’s even safer because security measures are ultra-high.
So, 45 of us turned up and had the most epic time, the most transformational time.
And 40-odd souls decided not to go. They decided to listen to the news and the media and buy into all of that madness.
And that’s okay. Again, that’s just the way things unfolded, the way the cookie crumbled. That was their choice, and we’re all free to make our own choices.
But I’m sharing this because I’m trying to make a point about what the media does. It gives us a perception. We can choose to buy into it or not. But they want us to be scared. They want us to be fearful of each other.
Savage gentlemen.
They walk this planet fearlessly, knowing that if anything ever happened, they could throw down at the drop of a hat and inflict mayhem.
But they also know that that’s the last thing they would ever want to do.
Because a savage man knows, a savage gentleman knows, that if they do throw down and cross that line, it can go very bad very quickly.
And nobody wants that.
A savage gentleman wants peace.
A savage gentleman wants calm.
The last thing a savage gentleman wants is for his own peace to be disturbed, and for the peace of his loved ones to be disturbed.
And this is where the savage gentleman comes in.
It’s about structure.
It’s about protection.
To hold the divine child. To hold the divine feminine, the magnetic.
So, the feminine can flow, and the feminine can create, and the feminine can magnetize.
And the child can be curious, and the child can be playful.
And that child is in every child, every woman, and every man.
And so a savage gentleman, by default, is curious, is playful, is creative, is all of these things.
And so is the divine feminine. Also fierce, protective.
You know, imagine these scenarios.
You’ve got a bunch of people that want to attack a village, and there’s a whole bunch of children in that village.
You’ve got a bunch of divine masculine men on the front line, and you’re the opposing force.
The other option is you’ve got a bunch of divine feminine.
Who are you going to be more worried about defending those children?
I mean, you put a mother in front of a child to defend that child, you’ve got a challenge. You’ve got a lioness. She will tear your face off.
I don’t know which is more worrying.
A bunch of divine feminine protecting the children, or a bunch of divine masculine men.
The point I’m trying to make is that men can protect. Men can love. Men can be gentle. Men can be soft. Men can be structured.
The female can be fierce and ferocious, but also kind and gentle and warm and loving and creative.
Together, they can build a home.
Together, they’re formidable.
But ultimately, inside every single man and every single woman is that inner divine twin-flame union, that inner electrical and magnetic frequency that has to be alchemized on the zero point.
The world doesn’t need more weak men.
As I said, weak men are dangerous.
The world doesn’t just need — it requires, on every level — for the savage gentleman to return to this planet.
And the savage gentleman does reside inside every single human, every single man, every single woman.
Just like the savage gentle woman lies inside every woman and inside every man.
When we first advertised our Savage Man retreat, we had a lot of women that wrote in.
And I told you that they were saying, “Why do you want more savage men?” etc.
But we had a whole bunch of another type of woman that wrote in.
And they were saying:
“Jerry, when are you going to do the Savage Woman retreat? We want to box. We want to do all the things that you’re going to be sharing.”
And you know what?
The women were more up for it than the men.
But we ended up doing the Savage Man.
I’ll tell you a story.
This is a beautiful story because I never, in all my wildest dreams, thought that this was possible.
On our Savage Man retreat, it was 13 days.
We took them through a really deep process.
We broke the men down and we rebuilt them.
And then we did three days of plant medicine at the end as a deep healing journey because we went through the wringer multiple times.
You see the testimonials and people were broken, literally.
And I want to tell you this one story about this particular incident.
We were sparring one evening.
We were putting the guys in the ring, which wasn’t an actual ring. We just did a rough-and-tumble style circle made up of all the men.
There were two guys in the middle.
And one guy cracked this other guy with an uppercut body shot to the ribs and broke his ribs.
He was in a lot of pain.
He came to me the next morning.
If you’ve ever had broken ribs, it’s nasty.
I’ve had my ribs broken before.
There’s nothing you can really do to mend them.
You can give them healing, but broken ribs are supposedly something that just has to splinter back and realign on its own.
So, this guy came to me the next morning and said:
“Jerry, I’m fucked.”
And we sat down together.
I was explaining to him that the ribs protect the heart.
And if you’ve got broken ribs, it means someone has either broken your heart or is trying to break your heart.
And he had just split up with his missus a couple of months back, so he had a broken heart anyway.
I said to him:
“Come back to the ceremony hall at whatever time it was — maybe 10, 10:30 in the morning.”
So, he came back.
And I got all the other men from the retreat.
It was like 40-odd men.
We made a little bed in the middle and we laid this guy down.
And if you watch the testimonial on this, it’s wild.
We all held hands.
I took everyone into a meditation standing up, spoke some light language.
I was crying.
I got everyone in there to open their heart.
The level of love was something I’ve never experienced.
The level of love that the men created together blew me away.
I just melted.
And so did loads of other men.
And then we went through this process.
And then I got everybody to kneel down, gather around the guy on the floor, and everybody put one hand on his body.
And we just opened our hearts.
And I was speaking light-language frequency into the space.
I can’t remember how long it went on for.
Maybe 30 minutes. Maybe 45 minutes.
Time just stood still.
Anyway, this guy’s ribs healed.
The love of 40-odd men.
Focused intent.
No ulterior motive.
Just to love this man.
To love this brother.
And his ribs came back into place and healed.
It was amazing.
Blew me away.
I’ll never forget it.
That’s the level of love that we can muster as humans.
Women can do it.
Men can do it.
Everyone can do it.
Children can muster it.
You know, when you’ve got a brother that’s injured, damaged on the floor, and 40 men gather around him with nothing but love in their heart, no judgment, no competition, no ego, no hierarchy, just love, that’s power.
That’s the savage gentleman.
The savage gentleman isn’t the guy that’s walking around trying to prove how tough he is.
He’s not the guy trying to dominate everyone in the room.
He’s not the guy trying to be the loudest voice.
The savage gentleman is the one that knows exactly who he is.
He doesn’t need validation.
He doesn’t need approval.
He doesn’t need someone else to tell him he’s enough because he already knows.
And because he knows, he can stand in his power quietly.
He can hold space.
He can protect.
He can provide.
He can create.
He can love.
And that’s what this planet needs.
It doesn’t need more men trying to be alpha.
It doesn’t need more men trying to be beta.
It doesn’t need labels.
It needs men to remember who they are.
And women to remember who they are.
Because when men remember who they are and women remember who they are, everything changes.
Families change.
Communities change.
Countries change.
The world changes.
The savage gentleman isn’t at war with the feminine.
He adores the feminine.
He honours the feminine.
He respects the feminine.
He creates a structure within which the feminine can flourish.
And the feminine inspires the masculine.
The feminine softens the masculine.
The feminine reminds the masculine why he’s doing all of this in the first place.
They’re a team.
They’re not opponents.
They’re not competing.
They’re dancing.
And somewhere along the line humanity forgot how to dance.
We forgot how to dance with each other.
We forgot how to communicate.
We forgot how to listen.
We forgot how to hold space.
We forgot how to love.
And because we forgot, we’ve ended up in this strange reality where men don’t know how to be men and women don’t know how to be women.
And everyone’s confused.
Everyone’s trying to figure it out.
Everyone’s looking outside themselves for answers.
But the answers aren’t outside of you.
They’re inside of you.
They’re in your heart.
They’re in your nervous system.
They’re in your DNA.
They’re in your soul.
And if you get quiet enough, still enough, present enough, you’ll hear them.
You’ll feel them.
You’ll remember.
Because that’s really what this journey is about.
It’s not becoming something you’re not.
It’s remembering what you’ve always been.
A savage gentleman remembers.
A savage woman remembers.
A divine human remembers.
And when you remember, you stop chasing.
You stop forcing.
You stop trying to become.
And you start being.
You start embodying.
You start living from truth.
You start living from your heart.
You start living from your values.
And then everything changes.
Your relationships change.
Your business changes.
Your health changes.
Your energy changes.
The opportunities that come into your life change.
Because you’re different.
You’re operating from a completely different frequency.
And frequency is everything.
Everything.
The people you attract.
The situations you attract.
The opportunities you attract.
The lessons you attract.
Everything is frequency.
So, if you want to become a savage gentleman, don’t focus on becoming dangerous.
Focus on becoming whole.
Because when you’re whole, the danger is already there if it’s ever needed.
But it’s controlled.
It’s integrated.
It’s balanced.
It’s conscious.
It’s guided by love.
And that’s the difference.
Anyone can be violent.
Anyone can lose control.
Anyone can explode.
That takes no mastery.
Mastery is having the capacity to destroy and choosing not to.
Mastery is having the strength to dominate and choosing compassion.
Mastery is being able to win every argument and choosing peace.
Mastery is restraint.
Mastery is presence.
Mastery is love.
That’s the way of the savage gentleman.
And wherever you are on planet Earth, remember this.
Love your sisters.
Love your brothers.
Love yourself.
Stand tall.
Stand strong.
Speak your truth.
Protect what matters.
Be kind.
Be fierce.
Be loving.
Be dangerous when necessary.
And gentle whenever possible.
That’s the balance.
That’s the magic.
That’s the alchemy.
ONE LOVE. ONE HEART. ONE HUMAN FAMILY. PEACE OUT, BEAUTIFUL SOUL
