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Hey there, beautiful soul. How are you feeling right now? Yes, inside your body. Get out of here and feel this magical vessel. Let’s talk about stories when you’re a kid and you’re growing up, stories are magical. You get lost in stories, you explore magical lands to meet fairies and wizards, white witch’s dragons, and you get lost in it and it becomes infused with your consciousness, and you become a part of the story and it’s wonderful.
I used to love listening to stories. I love telling stories. As adults we love a good story, a story where we can get lost which takes us back to being a child once again. Lost in the magical realms of your consciousness, floating on magic carpets, traveling through portals, diving into trees, and going into underground lairs where there are pixies and fairies running and jumping around. You get lost in these beautiful stories but there’s a flip side to stories. What we often do as adults is to help other people continue their stories.
This is dangerous. Not only for the other human being but for you too, and it brings me on to sympathy which is the main focal point of this short discussion, this video. A lot of people, they feel sorry for themselves, but this happened to me when I was a child. This happened to me when I was a teenager. I got hurt, I got abused, my mum left me, my dad left me, my sister passed away. There are all these different stories, all these little mini episodes within each human being’s story of life and they make up this great big story, and each human being can perceive that story however they wish. What happens is people come into your space, my space, other people’s spaces, and they start to tell their story.
When we show sympathy to these other human beings that come and tell us their story, we help them continue their story, and these aren’t the kind of stories that you want to continue. These are the kind of stories that you want to squash, put a nail in the coffin, put a pin in the balloon, end it right now, no ifs, butts, or maybes. Squash it because that story is deadly especially when you buy into the story in a certain way that keeps you in a low vibrational state of consciousness, a low frequency where you’re feeling all that old hurt, all that old resentment, all that old fear and guilt and torment and rejection or whatever it is. You’re locked into the frequency of the story and if you say to that human being, ah john, oh Karen, Sally, betty, whatever their names are. That’s terrible, that’s terrible, really that happens, oh my gosh. Oh, that’s so bad tell me all about it and then they go back in, and they continue the story.
We live in a soft society. It’s very true. I just look at a lot of the children around there. They don’t want to graft ,they don’t want to get their hands dirty, they don’t want to knuckle down and do any hard work. They don’t want to go out and experience life. They’d rather sit tapping away on their computers. They don’t like to expend too much energy. Now this isn’t all children, but this is a lot of children and a lot of teenagers, and a lot of adults are lazy. Let’s just be real right. What we’ve got to do if someone comes into our space and starts to tell us their story is say listen you need to sort your life out. I’m not going to listen to you say that story again. You’re better than that.
Inside you lies a warrior. Inside you lies superman and superwoman. Inside you lies strength courage determination. Inside you there is kindness compassion forgiveness. Inside you there is a lion inside you there is a lioness inside you there is magic, and you can continue to tell this story to all those ears that open and listen and keep yourself locked into the paradigm of that story forever and ever and ever. But me I’m not going to be a part of that anymore, I’m not going to help you continue the story. Sort your life out, drop it, forget about it. You see the story is only powerful if you give the story energy, if you give the story power, if you hand your power over to the story. Otherwise, it’s just a story.
If someone comes into your life and tells you a story about their life it can’t affect you unless you buy into the emotion of that story. Like you watch a movie, like you watch a play. You’ve got a great actor, you find yourself crying in fear, feeling those emotions come and rise up in your body because the actor is awesome, and you’ve lost yourself within the framework of this experience and you’re feeling everything they’re feeling.
When you allow someone to continue their story by offering them sympathy you also distract yourself from what you’re supposed to be doing. You’re wasting time on a story that there’s 5 years, 10 years, 15, 20, 30, 40, 50, 60, whatever, years old. That has no relevance right now unless you give it relevance unless you hand over your power so you’re distracting yourself from your own life. Why would you want to waste 5 seconds 10 seconds, 10 minutes, an hour, whatever on something that has no relevance to right now. Doesn’t that seem like insanity? When you lay it out properly it does. It’s madness.
So, sympathy should be stuck in the bin. It’s one of those words that is pointless. Don’t have sympathy for people. It doesn’t mean you need to be cruel. You can open your heart and say listen brother, listen sister, I love you, I love you so much. Give me a hug and you can give him a great big hug and then you can say I love you so much. That I’m going to be real with you, shut the f*** up and stop telling me that story, ditch that story, chuck it in the bin, stop feeling sorry for yourself, toughen the f*** up and let’s move forwards. Let’s draw a line in the sand, let’s step over it, and move into a new paradigm.
People don’t realize that healing is very simple if you just decide to move on, to step forwards now. Healing can also be very complicated and very complex. Absolutely it has a magnitude of complexity. If you want to buy into the story of someone else’s reality because they’re not stepping up and standing into their power and deciding to make a very firm choice right now to let it all go then obviously you can step into that realm of their complex experience and there are many ways that you can help facilitate that healing for another human being by stripping data out from the fields because the story is an information stream. It’s made up of mathematics, geometry, and it’s infused into someone’s biological computer. Now a great healer or a great facilitator of healing can go in and unpick that network of information and re-encode it and that works.
For a highly conscious human that absolutely knows who they are, it’s just about dropping the story, it’s just about making a decision, it’s just about owning the responsibility for your frequency, for your vibration, for where you are right now in life, and you just say you know what I’m awesome, I’m a legend, I’m a lion, I’m a lioness, and that story, it’s gone just like that. It’s like a rabbit disappearing in a magician’s hat. You are a quantum architect, and you are magic. You are weaving and casting spells 24/7, 365, and when you cast that spell of the story, you’re weaving into the cosmic fabric chaos and mayhem.
But now you know you can change that and now you know how dangerous it is to continue someone else’s story for your sake and theirs. You can just smile, express your love, be kind, and then say brother sister ditch that story because I am not going to listen to one second of your bull and I say that with compassion and love, with a great big open heart because that story is destroying you. It’s destroying you now. You know that it’s destroying you. What are you going to do, let it destroy you a little bit more for another five years or ten years, mess up a few more relationships, annihilate a few more businesses, or are you going to suck it up, ditch the story and take control.
Wherever you are on this magical epic beautiful, extraordinary, glorious ball that we call planet earth go out and hug your sisters and your brothers. Hug them so tightly beautiful soul. Hug them so tightly and remember the golden rule of hugging. Never be the first to let go, ever, ever, even if you’re there for a long time. That’s the golden rule of hugging and let’s let that golden rule of hugging spread like a virus infecting everyone on this planet. All we do is hug and release oxytocin, open our hearts, and connect with oneness baby.
Go out and love fiercely and ferociously and remember to check out our website starmagichealing.org. We got some of the best ascension tools on the planet man come and connect with your tribe and I will see you again real soon. If you want to join our new telegram group spiritual gangster one come and connect with that new community.
ONE LOVE. ONE HEART. ONE HUMAN FAMILY. PEACE OUT, BEAUTIFUL SOUL.
